By Loretta Gillespie
In December of 2006, Kristina and Richey Terry decided they wanted to have a baby. They were both young, healthy people, in their thirties, and Kristina had a child by a previous marriage without any problems. Nevertheless, after months of trying, they finally decided to seek help in finding out what was wrong. Things seemed fine with Richey, all systems go, so the doctors concentrated on testing Kristina.
In September of 2007, after checking her progesterone, doctors discovered that she was not ovulating. The next month her doctor started her on the fertility drug, Clomid. The couple had high hopes. Testing showed that the drug was helping her to ovulate. By November, pregnancy tests were still negative.
“I continued to take the Clomid, and was referred to a fertility doctor. After looking into my case, and doing more testing, he discovered that my problem was Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome, (PCOS),” says Kristina. “There were thirteen cysts on one of my ovaries, and seven on the other,” she recalls.
In May, it was back to the doctor’s office for an Intra Uterine Insemination, (IUI). This process required a sperm specimen from Richey to be planted in Kristina’s uterus. Much to their disappointment, after another test, the results were still negative.
On June 9th, they made a trip to Birmingham, to another fertility doctor. Kristina recalls, “The doctor gave me a fertility shot to boost me into ovulating regularly. Her diagnosis was the same as before, PCOS.” The next month, the pregnancy results were the same, negative. It was getting disheartening for them, but they continued to hope.
By July, the doctor decided that surgery was necessary to check for endometriosis, and to see if Kristina’s tubes could possibly be blocked. This should also stimulate her ovaries. “My tubes were clear, but I had a very mild case of endometriosis,” says Kristina. On August 15, 2008, Kristina had a second IUI performed. Two weeks later tests showed that nothing was happening.
In November, Kristina started taking fertility shots. She went back again to Birmingham for the third IUI, but later that month had yet another disappointment. That Christmas, Kristina got another round of fertility shots. “These were higher doses, so I was positive that this time it would work. They wanted to do another IUI, but it was Christmas, and we just couldn’t afford it.” Even with all the expensive procedures, drugs, tests, and effort on their part, in January they were faced with yet another frustrating result. Things were looking grim, nothing seemed to be working. Kristina was advised to stop all medications and to start a regimen of birth control pills, “The doctor thought that my system needed a rest from everything,” she said.
In April of 2009, just as she was starting to relax — to stop stressing out over the whole ordeal — Kristina woke up one morning coughing up blood and unable to breath. Not knowing what was wrong, and in incredible pain, she tried to wait it out. When she could stand it no longer, she gave in and went to the emergency room. A CAT scan showed a blood clot in her lung. Her family physician determined that the clot was the result of all the estrogen she had been taking. He put her on the blood thinner, Cumodin, and took her off everything else she had been taking.
Four days later, she left the hospital, scared, depressed, and still not pregnant. Kristina and Richey finally gave in to the idea that they might never have a baby. They were devastated at the thought. They had come close to losing Kristina. If the clot had been bigger, or hit another area of her lung, she might not have pulled through. On the outside, they appeared to be living their lives as if the trauma of the past years had never happened, but on the inside, they were both disheartened and depressed. Even Allie, Kristina’s eleven-year-old daughter, noticed that they both seemed to be just going through the motions. Later, Kristina would describe these as the darkest days of her life.
On July 17, 2009, a hot and sultry day here in North Alabama, Kristina stopped in to get a pedicure and the nail technician remarked that Kristina’s skin was glowing. That may have been what made her stop in town to pick up a pregnancy test kit - something she hadn’t done in several months - it was almost an after thought, something she just threw in with her groceries. Later, when she took the test, it turned up positive. She didn’t trust the results, so she went back to get another one. It was also positive. “I had just had some blood work and an x-ray done that same day, as a recheck on my blood clot, so I called the nurse and asked her to run a pregnancy test with the sample she had. When she called back and confirmed what the other tests had shown, I was elated!” recalls Kristina.
At the time, Richey was on a business trip in Georgia. “I just left the guy who was with me there, and came straight home,” said Richey with a grin. “I was here in two hours.” The couple wound up meeting at the Emergency Room, not because of the baby, but because Allie had broken her leg in a trampoline accident.
“When Richey walked into the ER, we just hugged and cried. I’m sure the nurses thought we were really making a big deal out of a broken leg,” she laughs. “Everyone said Richey was glowing more than me, and he actually gained more weight than I did! I prayed to God, thanking Him for giving us this chance, for the incredible miracle He had blessed us with, and for my amazing life,” she humbly adds.
On March 1, 2010, Piper Richelle Terry was born, healthy and beautiful. It was a normal delivery, with family surrounding her. Allie, now officially a Big Sister, was almost as proud as if she had produced this little life herself. “I have always thanked God for giving me Allie, and now I have another precious gift from Him,” says Kristina, softly.
This story was written as an inspiration to couples everywhere who are trying to have children.